You succeed precisely because you don’t hurry and to not hurry, or to learn how not to hurry is where the hard work starts.
The hard work starts because to be relaxed you need to be more aware. But then, what is awareness? Awareness is not only the things that you can perceive or grasp through your senses or the computational ability of the brain. Awareness is that which embraces the things that are unknown.
If you see, majority of the universe is filled with anti-matter which is in other words “nothing” or dark matter or unknown. This nothing has a lot of influence on whatever we know as the universe. Now apply the same logic to your life, there are N number of unknown things that are directly or indirectly involved for a particular situation of your life to come into effect. You can be the best and still lose badly, tamely or you can have the best day of your life just when things look worst for you. All those are inexplicable situations precisely because of that unknown factor behind it. If you try to find the cause of why a particular situation happened, you could draw various reasons and not just one. That is because this “nothing” is basically impartial. It doesn’t choose sides till your intent or conscience tells it to. As a result, the conclusions are often too many, infinite to account for.
Awareness helps you be at peace with that “nothing” in our lives. It accepts its presence. Infact, with awareness as you become more comfortable with this unknown factor, you tend to become more and more blissful and as you become blissful, the positive vibe of blissfulness starts manouvering this “nothing” into something that increases your blissfulness even more. It becomes a cyclic thing of sorts.