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Do you ever feel like taking a chance or doing something in life so that you can feel the thrill of the unknown, the excitement of what is to come next? Sometimes I feel it and feeling it strongly nowadays. And, I’m not talking about going for bungee jump or skydive or anything like that. They’re momentary as in they last for a few minutes so to say. I’m talking about life events. This obviously means that on the opposite side, I often feel stuck in life. This is the period of transition. This means I, the consciousness will emerge, evolve for the better once this period is over. Evolution is not pain free though. It can never be. The period of transition is rigorous. It is a mixture of pain, pleasure, anticipation, fear, in a whole bitter-sweet. But for me personally, thrill of the unknown is what really thrills me. I have always had the habit of trying to change things for more excitement. I have lost a lot for that to be honest. People have often criticised me and called me fickle and said I’m not consistent enough in life. For me, on one side I do realise the importance of consistency, however to chop and change and see how it pans out with the hope of things getting better is always how I’ve tried to function. Curiousity, desire, excitement, thrill or impatience, fickle, inconsistent, there are many ways to see it. I see it as the ones mentioned formerly though. Personally, I’d rather wander and stumble upon something miraculous or horrendous than meticulously work towards something and finally achieving it. For me, if you are sure then the fun is gone.
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How does the compatibility factor in a relationship improve? Well, there are many ways. But the most important factor should mean completion of a cycle. Let me explain here, the universe is in cycles. Every effing thing is that way. So are our relationships, our bonding so to say. A husband-wife relationship is a cyclic one as well. It is like a circle, husband is one half, wife the other and the evolutional, spiritual growth should always compliment each other to complete that circle. Sharing of thoughts, especially the deepest ones is the most important factor. You are not only sharing thoughts remember. You are primarily sharing, exchanging energies. Share your thoughts, your feelings as best as you can. It may not be comfortable to share or even to take in what is being shared, but with time, it will be. The bonding will increase to a level where sharing the deepest things become a common factor. That becomes a spiritual growth of a relationship. Spiritual growth of a relationship essentially means two separate entities spiritually growing in unison.
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It is a massive quality to let others feel free to open up in front of you. You do that by being open yourself. By being open means mainly two things. First, you do not be in a hurry to reply. Let the person speak to his/her heart’s content. Words are nothing but concretized feelings. Let the feelings be completely out of the person’s heart. Many a times the person may not even need a reply. He/she may just be trying to let the feelings out. This automatically leads you to the second point, it is to not judge too quickly. Being judgemental and shooting off a reply in times when somebody’s trying to let the feelings out often puts him/her off. He/she may never again try to open up before you. The more you absorb somebody’s feelings, the more that person feels free to talk to you.
Om Shanti..🙏