I had a couple of fights wid my childhood friends this month..n it wasn’t any good reason to fight..in fact I myself got angry over a silly matter n we fought..n we had a few arguments as well..oh..btw..this is in kolkata..I’m here in kolkata for a few days..this time wen I’m here..I can find dat there r a few differences between our thots..they’re small but they make differences in life..for example..I was havin a diet coke which was costing me 50 bucks..my friend in here said, “ur havin a coke worth 50 bucks?”..even though wat he said is probably right..in Mumbai..even my girlfriend never tells me anything if I go n have a coffee worth 100 bucks..so I was a little annoyed..then again one day..I wore a glare worth 3000 bucks..my friend said..this glare which is worth 3000 doesn’t look its worth more than 200..”again I was annoyed..I thot..my parents never say stuff like this..so who’s he to say stuff like this?..but on the contrary he’s probably half right..hehe!!not full..cuz I think u can’t buy quality wid 200 bucks in terms of glares..but my point is not the glares or something..my point is my realisation..first I thought..they’re jealous..then I thought no..they can’t be..I know them fully well..they can’t be..then I thot maybe they’ve not seen the world where ppl buy expensive stuff jus for fun..but I cancelled dat thot out as well..cuz I know not everyone in dat world r like dat..simple living ppl r also there in dat world where u find them havin a lot of money or hanging around wid rich blokes but living a simple life themselves..then one day this thot dawned me dat maybe jus maybe I’m not being flexible or adaptable..I stay in Mumbai where generally ppl live a more expensive life n wen I come back to kol..watever things considered normal at mumbai I do become extravagant to others..but here..one could argue saying..y to think of others? Do hell wid others..but I personally can’t think like dat bout my childhood friends..I’m not dat type..so I think to avoid all these unnecessary confusion..I will have to be adaptable..I mean where ever u go u try not to do things which bring other people’s gaze towards u..I’m fortunately lucky dat even if I do something extravagant I won’t lose my childhood frens..but others might not b so lucky..so being adaptable is a vital part of one’s life I feel..if u don’t become adaptable then I feel as u go higher in life u will have to change ur friends every now n then..in dat u might have friends but u won’t have true friends..who’ll stand wid u in ur moment of crisis..i personally wudn’t wanna change my frens..especially d childhood ones..cuz those r ur frens who had been wid u since ur puberty..otherwise there’s another very simple way to keep ur frens..live a simple life even after earning a lot of money which I personally don’t believe in as of now..ppl earn money to enjoy all d luxuries available in life n of course for greed..hehe!!.. then y earn so much if u wanna live a simple life? So to me..ADAPTABILITY is a very imp thing to keep ur relationship wid ppl far n wide..in dat u give respect to d ppl ur wid as well..n dat means u care to keep d relationships wid ppl who u’ve known since ur childhood as well..uff!! Too much writing..I think I’m done..goin out to loaf wid my friends..
