Today after a few weeks I’m writing here in my blog. Today’s is about a conflict of thought in my mind..I’ve been reading motivational books since the past month..1 thing which all the books say is that ” if u have a bulldog like spirit, burning desire and faith about what u want in life then you’ll get it no matter what..life gives u pretty much everything u ask for..provided u ask for it firmly”…I think most people in life dream about achieving certain things in life..For example, some people want money..some people want fame..some people want this..some people want that..blah blah blah.. that ultimate goal for them is to realise your dream n be content and happy..but what is truly baffling is that all the religious books have said that if u want to really be happy u will have to see the miracles of life even in the simplest things of life..for example..even in a grain of sand..so my point is suppose u have a big dream..to become say..like david beckham..a guy with tremendous fame and money..n u also have a desire to see the miracles even in the simplest forms of life..what should that man do? Its like u try to follow ur dream n in that u miss the other happiness in life..say for example the growing up of ur child..or having a family dinner together..or say going out on trekking wid ur family.. these r special moments in a man’s life..these give tremendous happiness but at the same time realising ur dream also gives tremendous happiness.. so what should a man do if he has to choose between realising his dream and finding happiness in the little things of life? I guess he has to find a balance in life..he has to make a choice n stick to it..but then again what will a man do if he thinks that he will follow his dream and later on he realises that he has missed those small but precious moments of life cuz he was too busy following his dream or maybe he was so engrossed with finding happiness in small things that he has given up the dream of his life..I guess at one point this becomes the biggest choice to make in many people’s life..so I feel whoever is stuck with this kind of conflict of thoughts should be absolutely clear in their minds as to what they want in life..it shouldn’t be an instictive decision..it should be a well thought out decision..cuz u can find peace and happiness in both the things but absolute peace and happiness in only one thing..n that choice is yours..so u gotta tell your mind everything..all the pros and cons of both the things and then see what you want in life..then only you’ll get extreme happiness in whichever side u choose to go..OM NAMAH SHIVAIY!!